Ignite the Romance of Marriage

The song says, “Love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage!” As we are in the ‘carriage ride’ of marriage, the romance must always be nurtured or it will be left by the wayside amidst the stresses of life. It takes a lifetime of commitment to abandon all others and cleave to your spouse.

In my book, God’s Design for Marriage, I share the three sides of intimacy. The word intimate in today’s world assumes physical involvement in a relationship. Yes, the gift of sex is God’s gift to marriage, but it is only 1/3 of the intimacy that is needed for complete fulfillment of marriage that I describe as passion.

Emotional intimacy and spiritual intimacy will produce passion. Every woman I know desires to be connected with her husband emotionally.  She wants to know what he feels and thinks about life. She wants to share her feelings and thoughts with him. As the husband is to be the pastor/priest of the home, it thrills the wife’s heart when her husband takes leadership in sharing times of prayer and reading the Bible together with the children.

When both husband and wife are willing to invest time in and with each other to develop emotional and spiritual intimacy, they are erecting healthy boundaries around their marriage that leads to passion and a guarantee against an affair.  What better gift can you give to your marriage and children?

Yes, affairs happen – they are usually not planned. It’s the lack of planning and working on the marriage that creates the open door for Satan’s foothold of dissatisfaction. If God is first in your life, your spouse second and your children third, your life will be blessed. Romance will be ignited when you follow God’s design!

God’s Design for Marriage gives you the ‘tools’ you need to have a marriage full of love, joy, peace and passion. Go to www.carolclemans.org to order the book, CD’s and teaching DVD’s. I provide nationwide counseling by phone/Skype to help hurting marriages and hurting people – (636) 448-0121. I also teach marriage seminars and teaching God’s Word for spiritual, emotional and relational growth for churches and conferences.

The family is the foundation of society. The devil is doing everything possible to destroy the foundation in society and the church. Let’s decide to be proactive in building on the foundation of the Lord Jesus Christ and His truth!  It must start in the home. When the home is healthy, the church will be healthy and all will impact the world around us!!!  Ignite the fire of romance and the fire of our relationship with God, our life giver!!


© Carol Clemans – December 2013



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Carol Clemans is a Certified Pastoral Counselor (27 years), Bible conference speaker, Christian Life Coach and author. She provides counseling nationwide by phone/web cam. The mission for Carol’s teaching, counseling and writing is to help others grow and heal spiritually, emotionally and relationally.

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