Please purchase: CLEAN – A proven plan for men committed to sexual integrity.

Author: Douglas Weiss, PhD

In my ministry of teaching, counseling and writing as a Bible teacher (50 yrs.) and Certified Pastoral Counselor (24 yrs.), I’m constantly helping people who are addicted to pornography – it destroys the soul, family & ministries. “If the devil can seduce you, the devil will reduce you.” Satan desires to steal, kill and destroy everyone who is righteous.

Porn addiction is the most powerful addiction according to medical science. Because it is a self-induced chemical addiction, it’s more destructive to the brain than any drug or alcohol addiction. When a male uses porn in real life or through thought to satisfy self sexually, the receptors in the brain that process the surge of dopamine shut down because they are being overloaded. This creates the desire for more and more to increase the level of pleasure. This can result in ED for men. In my counseling, husbands who are addicted to porn say now they cannot perform sexually with their wives.

Men who use porn look at females as sexual objects instead of women created by God to live life to give God glory. This affects how men treat women in general and specially a wife. Porn users are usually emotionally and verbally abusive in the home. Porn users are drawn to adultery, sexual abuse, homosexuality, rape etc., because this satanic influence distorts the rational thinking processes. Ted Bundy confessed to Dr. James Dobson years ago that the use of porn is what led him to sexually abuse and kill several women.

Porn addiction creates a ‘lonely core’ in the soul of the user. Relationship with God is broken and most of life is lived in hypocrisy. I know this through education and the testimonies of porn users. This secret sin is in the people who attend church. The church needs to come out of denial and face this truth head on – the devil is destroying lives from within the church.

Porn becomes a person’s god! The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life are in full control. It takes prayer and much more to be an over comer. The brain must be rewired through the discipline by choice to stop porn use at all levels. There needs to be a holy accountable same-sex person involved. An educated qualified counselor using God-principles to rewire the brain for godliness is a must. I’ve been counseling porn addiction for 24 years.

The above book is a must read for all godly men, most of all pastors and leaders in our churches around the world. General statistics prove that a high percentage of men struggle with sexual integrity – porn use: 77% of men and 34% women who attend church. If we do not learn how to use the weapons that God has given us to protect self and family from these sins, they will seduce and destroy.

I provide a ministry nationwide of godly counseling in confidentiality by phone/Skype – call (636) 448-0121 and I will explain. I also speak on the subject of Sexual Purity for All Ages for church/conferences. I love teaching God’s anointed Word for spiritual growth in all areas of our life.

I counsel for sexual purity, anxiety, depression, grief, marriage, pre-marital, family-parenting, healing for damaged emotions, sexual abuse recovery, porn addiction recovery, adultery, spiritual & relational growth, etc. Some people are hesitant when they call about counseling – I suggest scheduling one session – they decide from there – 99.9% desire additional counseling – to God be the glory!

In addition to the above, I’m a Certified Christian Life Coach helping people with their life choices about their current issues and future goals based on their god-given abilities.

My heartbeat is to help the family of God to grow and heal spiritually, emotionally and relationally. Go to my website: for 268+ articles, teaching CD’s and DVD’s, book: God’s Design for Marriage – I teach marriage & family seminars – teach for churches/conference the Word of God for spiritual, emotional and relational healing.

Contact me to schedule speaking or counseling (636) 448-0121 or email:

© Carol Clemans – March 2016



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Carol Clemans is a Certified Pastoral Counselor (27 years), Bible conference speaker, Christian Life Coach and author. She provides counseling nationwide by phone/web cam. The mission for Carol’s teaching, counseling and writing is to help others grow and heal spiritually, emotionally and relationally.

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